Framing Relationships
People Architects use the phrase ‘framing relationships’, but what does this mean?
I can point to projects for others that have positively ‘framed relationships’. However, it is more personal and meaningful when we reflect on how it has influenced our own relationships.
Those who know me have seen how these three projects below have been a labour of love and a ridiculous time sink. I enjoy the process of designing, but making things with my own hands is a therapeutic antidote to primarily sitting at a desk.
The projects have evolved from our journey of renovating a 1980s ‘doer upper’ on a modest budget over the last decade. Hopefully, they also illustrate what thoughtful design can add without just throwing money at a problem.
Lockdown Window Seat
We live in an upside-down house on a slope where you enter into the first floor living spaces, offering a wonderful view of the surrounding trees. During the pandemic lockdowns, as our homes became our sanctuaries, I sought ways to enhance our living environment and daily routines.
Thus, the idea of a window seat was born. It was crafted not just to frame the view but to provide a serene space for solitary contemplation and connection with God. This spot has become my morning refuge, demonstrating how architecture can profoundly influence our daily lives.
2. Pergola Project
Initially conceived from a desire to have somewhere flat in the garden to sit, in a sunny spot, to relax with a drink. It was to be part of transforming the garden which is a passion of my wife Kelly.
The project literally and metaphorically grew legs. An outside patio became a large raised deck and pergola.
Memories are formed and relationships forged through time spent in each other’s company. The pergola was sized and positioned to be a lasting space for us to gather together. It provides opportunities for life with friends and one another in the context of the garden.
We are now watching the slow but steady progress of climbing scented flowers occupying the pergola. It is a literal framing of relationships in a garden context.
3. Top Garden
Although chronologically the first of these projects, the top garden represents a continuation of our DIY journey. Designed for family meals and relaxation, it embodies slowing down and cherishing each other’s company, reminiscent of being away on holiday.
In essence, these projects serve different purposes but share a common goal: to enhance and frame relationships. They embody the ethos of People Architects, seeking to create spaces that value people and architecture that can serve.
They are unknowingly the thinking and application of People Architects before it was given birth.
Written by Mike Worthington